Orgasm is optional… but not being able to achieve it when desired can be troubling. It’s also a problem almost exclusively faced by women. However, finding a solution to this issue is possible.
You might be excited and ready to go as soon as she gives you a sexy look. But many women require a lot of physical and emotional stimulation to get aroused, lubricated, and prepared for orgasm. That’s why foreplay is so crucial. Discover the four key steps of foreplay.
Stimulate her mentally For some women, mental arousal is just as important as physical arousal. A sexy note or a naughty call during the day can make her think about your upcoming encounter. Candles, fresh flowers, and ambient music can also create a loving and sensual atmosphere. For many women, closeness and emotional intimacy can lead to better sexual experiences and more orgasms.
Use a gentle touch Gently caressing her can create sexual tension before going further. Hug her tightly, hold her hand, or touch her thigh. Female orgasm is more likely to happen if, when you’re kissing a woman, you let your hands wander into more erotic areas of her body. (Another hint: yes, breasts are an erogenous zone, but they’re not the only one! Try caressing her back or thighs, or running your fingers through her hair.)
Elevate the kissing game Kisses are essential in foreplay. Discovering new places to kiss that excite her is both fun and rewarding. Try her neck or shoulders to start with.
Don’t forget to communicate Women tend to be more verbal, and hearing how good she makes you feel can help her open up and have fun.
